How to Choose a Natural Sapphire: Expert Tips for Finding Your Gemstone

One of the most common questions we’re asked is:
“How do I choose the right sapphire?”

Truth is—there’s no universal “right” sapphire.
There’s only the one that feels right to you.

After years of working closely with collectors, couples, and gem enthusiasts, one thing has always held true:

💎 If a sapphire speaks to you the moment you see it, don’t hesitate—that’s your stone.

As Coco Chanel once said:

“The best color in the whole world is the one that looks good on you.”

This philosophy applies beautifully to sapphires. Whether it’s the color, shape, or the way it sparkles in natural light—your connection to the stone matters more than the traditional “4 Cs” of color, cut, clarity, and carat weight.

Why Each Natural Sapphire Is One-of-a-Kind

Sapphires—especially those that are natural and unheated—are never exactly alike. Unlike diamonds or lab-created gems, no two sapphires will ever be identical. Their natural origins, mineral compositions, and color zoning make each one a small miracle of the earth.

If you fall in love with a particular stone but hesitate, it may be gone forever. We’ve seen it happen many times—especially with rare hues like teal, peach, or royal blue sapphires.

Be Open to Shape, Color & Cut

Many clients come to us with a specific shape or size in mind—perhaps an oval, cushion, or emerald cut. But what often surprises them is that they fall for something completely unexpected.

A customer once told us she had to have a cushion-cut sapphire... she ended up falling head over heels for a radiant-cut teal gem instead.
It happens. And we love it.

Our advice? Don’t limit yourself. Explore, try on, and let the gemstone speak for itself.

Ignore Trends. Trust Your Taste.

It’s tempting to follow trends or get influenced by what others are wearing. But a sapphire—especially an engagement stone—is about your story, not someone else’s. This gem will be part of your journey, and it should reflect your taste, your style, and your energy.

We also caution against sellers who push generic advice like “this is the best color” or “go for only eye-clean stones.” While quality matters, what matters most is how the stone makes you feel.

What If You Change Your Mind Later?

That’s the beauty of sapphires—you don’t have to stop at just one.
We change homes, wardrobes, even luxury watches... so why not have more than one sapphire ring in your collection?

Many of our long-time clients have returned for second (or third!) sapphires. Each piece tells a different chapter of their life, and together, they make up a personal legacy.

Final Thought

Whether you’re choosing a sapphire for an engagement ring, a birthday gift, or a lifetime investment—choose the one that excites you. That thrill, that emotional connection, is priceless.

And if you're buying for someone special? Trust your instincts.
Your thoughtfulness and attention will shine through the stone you choose.

🔍 Explore Our Natural Sapphire Collection
Browse rare, one-of-a-kind sapphires handpicked for brilliance, color, and authenticity at Nash Gems.